I had a crush on my husband (before we were married) when I was engaged to another guy– for me it was “love at first sight.” We had the same class at Ft. Sam Houston and we even shared the same lab table.
My future husband had no idea how I felt about him, and I don’t think he really knew “I existed.” After I broke off my engagement with the other guy, I started to be more strategic about “accidentally” bumping into him at social situations.
One of those occasions was on Easter morning. My roommate woke me up and said that there was an egg hunt. I asked her who would be there and she named several people, including my husband. I immediately jumped out of bed and got ready.
I remember signing up for a flag football game just so I could be near him. To my delight, we were put on the same team, I really didn’t know how to play so he had to tell me which side of the field we were on and in which direction I was supposed to run. Then after the game, we actually had a conversation!
I like to reminisce on these events because it makes me remember how much I wanted to be in my husband’s presence.
Then I thought about God and how I don’t always put the effort to be with Him. “…you will seek the Lord your God and you will find him, if you search after him with all your heart and with all your soul” (Deuteronomy 4: 29). “The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him” (Lamentations 3:25).
If I can put so much effort to being with my future husband, then I should put even more effort to being with God. Just as I was strategic to be close to my husband, I need to be strategic with my time to be with God.
Copyright © 2013 Dr. M. Teresa Trascritti